You could broaden your learning from their own favorites. They are common ones that they love or run themselves - consider it a recommendation. You can also take a look at the websites that the person has listed. You also have the option to add it to your own fetish list and I encourage you to do that so you can go back to that fetish at any time and check out the groups listed as they are constantly growing. You can see what the person is interested in and if you click on the fetish item you will get a comprehensive list of who else has that fetish listed as well as groups that possibly cater to that fetish. The second place that is an excellent place to search for information is the person's fetish list. Add as many groups as you'd like to your own profile by joining the group on the group page. Make sure you read the about page with the rules to see if there are any restrictions for joining or participating. The groups list is the first place to look for interesting groups that they are in that you might be interested in joining. The goldmine of information on a person's profile comes from several places. You can use their status feed to read what they are currently commenting on, follow their sites all over the web and see what events they are planning on attending. Reading through a person's profile will tell you a lot about what they enjoy, how much experience they have and also what groups they participate in. User stats (height, weight, location, fetish commonalities, other personal ads information) Groups for every kink imaginable, munch groups, and so much more.Įvents, cons, play parties, munches and everything in between. The search is used primarily for the following terms: If you know what sorts of topics that interest you then the search box might be helpful for you. Would you mind if I added you to my friends list?' 'Hi, I recognize your name from Submissive Guide and really admire what you are doing for the submissive community. Some people have limits on who they will friend on FetLife. It's always considerate to send someone a message first before sending them a friendship request. Many of the Submissive Guide contributors are on FetLife. Head on over and sign up it's free! Once you have a basic profile created you can begin adding your friends. Today I'd like to walk you through the ways that I use to find information and continue my learning with FetLife. Regardless of the struggles and growing pains it endures or the negative press it gets for trolls and spam, it does manage that very well through an active trustworthy volunteer staff base. But since the search capacity is limited it can be very difficult to find the information you may be looking for. It's also a good place to make friends with local people and organize events. FetLife has proven itself to be a valuable resource for those persons looking for kink advice and learning all about fetishes they may not have ever considered.

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